When Helping Students Means Teaching Them How to Get Help

(Guest Blog – Tessa Dodson)

Tessa Dodson, Senior Writer of Classrooms.com, explores the need for students to develop the learning behaviors of seeking and using support from others. She suggests actions teachers can take to build these skills and mindsets. Instructional coaches can explore the benefits to students and teachers of building these empowered learning capabilities. These are skills we want students to carry with them.

Support looks different at every stage of a student’s education. As students move through middle and high school, they can gradually take a more active role in recognizing when they need help. Educators are often very good at recognizing when students need help. But if adults always identify the need, locate the resource, and initiate the support, when does the student learn to do those things?

I have seen this development from two very different perspectives. During my time as a teacher’s assistant in middle school, I noticed how naturally students relied on the adults to meet their needs. Later, as a college student career coach, I saw them working through a different kind of independence. These experiences made me think more about when students actually learn to recognize that they want help and take the first step toward getting it.

Why Support Matters as Students Become More Independent

Research has found that students who experienced positive teacher support showed lower levels of study-related burnout and higher levels of study engagement. I find this interesting because it points to the value of consistent guidance and assistance from teachers as students work through academic and day-to-day challenges.

In high school, educators often have many opportunities to provide more structured support. As teachers see the same individuals regularly, it is easier for them to notice changes in academic performance or behavior. From here, counselors, families and other educators can bring different perspectives to the situation.

Teacher-to-teacher communication is also particularly useful as students move between classrooms and grades, giving the next educator more context for supporting the student. When students go to college, that direct educator handoff is often less available. That makes it especially important for students to practice identifying their needs and finding support before leaving high school.

Educators need to gradually step back and give learners more responsibility for working through challenges and seeking assistance. At the same time, they should remain available to guide them through the process.

Building Help-Seeking Skills Through SEL

Help-seeking skills are easiest to build when students have room to practice them. Social-emotional learning (SEL) gives educators an effective framework to help learners develop these capabilities.

SEL’s framework comprises five key areas, including self-awareness, self-management, social awareness, relationship skills and responsible decision-making. Several of these competencies directly support the different steps of seeking help. Self-awareness helps students recognize when they need assistance, while social awareness includes recognizing the people and resources around them, which helps them see where that help can be found.

Students also benefit from relationship skills that help them communicate their needs. When it comes to evaluating choices, responsible decision-making helps them consider their options and decide how to use the support they receive.

Together, these competencies can guide learners along the student learning continuum, gradually moving them toward greater confidence in seeking support.

Let Students Explain the Need First

When students encounter difficulty, it is important to give them space to identify and explain what they need before offering a solution. Describing the problem can help them understand their own learning while giving teachers a clearer picture of where support is useful.

  • Give students time to describe the part of a task they find difficult.
  • Encourage them to separate what they understand from what remains unclear.
  • Ask them to identify what they have already tried.

Practice Finding the Right Resource

Students would benefit from learning how to identify where appropriate help can come from, whether that is a teacher or another school resource.

  • Introduce students to different sources of academic and personal support.
  • Help them recognize which resources suit different needs.
  • Provide them with opportunities to consider their options before directing them to one.
  • Encourage them to use more than one resource when appropriate.

Build Question-Asking into Routines

Knowing where to seek help is only part of the process. Students should also practice explaining what they require and formulating specific questions.

  • Encourage them to prepare questions before seeking assistance.
  • Ask for specific descriptions of where they are struggling.
  • Build question preparation into classroom routines.
  • Give them low-pressure opportunities to practice communicating their needs.

Give Students a Role in Follow-Up

Students can also learn to consider whether the support they received actually helped and what they can do with it. Building in a reflection process builds student agency by helping them make decisions about their own learning.

  • Provide opportunities to apply the guidance independently.
  • Encourage reflection on what they learned from the support.
  • Have them consider what they might try if a similar challenge comes up.
  • Set up a system for checking progress.

In my experience, reflection is often where the learning becomes more personal. Students begin to see which kinds of support work for them and become more prepared to make similar decisions on their own.

Why Students Still Need Support Along the Way

The need for meaningful support does not disappear as students become more independent, in part because so many students still do not fully know where to turn for it.

Building independence, then, is about helping students recognize when they need assistance. It also helps them make good use of available support. A study of over 1,000 high school students found that 40% regularly hesitated to admit if they were confused or did not know something. That gap serves as a reminder that recognizing the need for help doesn’t come naturally to most students. It’s a skill they have to practice, the same way they practice any other part of learning.

Preparing Students for Independence

Findings from higher education research suggest that students benefit academically when they seek help to address their learning needs. By the time they reach college, they may have plenty of resources around them. However, they must take more responsibility for accessing them.

Earlier practice gives students a foundation for doing more of that work themselves. They already had opportunities to recognize when they are stuck and who to turn to for support. When they transition to a different environment, these experiences can make seeking help feel like a familiar part of learning.

Empowering Students to Move Forward With Confidence

The move toward greater independence starts well before students leave high school. Educators can help them prepare by giving them more opportunities to take an active role in their own learning, decisions and problem-solving. Taking small steps can build confidence and help learners take greater ownership of what comes next.

Thanks Tessa. Readers can contact Tessa at: tessa@classrooms.com




Podcast: Knowing Students Builds Connections

Tim Smyth, a high school teacher, shares his strategies for regularly surveying his students to build valuable connections. Hear some of the questions and approaches that tap information about his students. Tim has experienced knowing students better, having students know him, and at times knowing students who need emotional help. Instructional coaches can use Tim’s voice to spark teachers’ thinking about the possibilities. Tim started this process as a professional growth plan –  that might be a great option for other teachers.

Read Tim’s article here.

Find the blog on the 4S’s interview here.

Visit Tim’s site here.

Email Tim: historycomicsguy@gmail.com

Subscribe to the Steve Barkley Ponders Out Loud podcast on iTunes or visit BarkleyPD.com to find new episodes!

Podcast Transcript:

[00:00:00.300] – Steve [Intro]
Hello and welcome to Steve Barkley Ponders Out Loud. Together, we’ll explore ways to support teacher growth, elevate your coaching practice, and boost student success. Each week, I’ll share my own insights as well as conversations with inspiring guests to help you lead with confidence. Thanks for listening.

[00:00:25.340] – Steve
Knowing Students Builds Engagement. Our podcast guest today is Tim Smyth, whose post in Edge Utopia grabbed my attention. It’s titled, “Surveying Students Regularly Can Yield Valuable Connections.” Being a promoter of creating ways to know students and having students know that they are known, I immediately sent an invitation to Tim and was pleased to get his quick response. Tim has been teaching for over 20 years and is an author and educational consultant. He focuses on making one-on-one connections with students by surveying them to gather information about their goals, challenges, and everyday lives. Tim shares his own lived experiences and passions, such as comics and all things hip hop, as he encourages students to share their own experiences and passions in the classroom. Welcome, Tim.

[00:01:35.200] – Tim
Good morning, Steve. Good afternoon. Thanks for having me on the show.

[00:01:38.920] – Steve
Well, I’m excited that you’re here. As I read your piece, you shared that serving students began as part of a professional growth plan. I’m wondering how you arrived at that idea. I do a lot of work with schools on building professional growth plans, and I talk about a professional growth plan should be the testing of a hypothesis. I’m wondering, what was the hypothesis you had in mind as you laid out your growth plan?

[00:02:08.540] – Tim
So the PGS, something that we have to do, and it’s a really interesting way to do it rather than traditionally being observed, like you said, is coming up with that hypothesis. My idea was getting to know my students more on a human level, getting to interact with them weekly, bi weekly, as much as I could, what would the impact be on the learning in my classroom? I have found that it has had an immeasurably positive impact and effect with these surveys. If I don’t do them often enough, a lot of the times the students will say, Hey, Mr. Smyth, we haven’t done one of these in about two weeks. Can we do another? And so it’s been a really impactful thing to build community in my classroom and really just for the students to know that they’re not just a number in my classroom. It’s not just a percentage of what their grade is. I’ve gotten to know them in ways that when you’ve got five classes and 30 kids in each class and you’re going bell to bell, it’s just not possible to do it in an ordinary way.

[00:03:09.640] – Steve
I’m really glad to have you label that because frequently, secondary teachers share with me the overwhelmingness. I’m afraid too often, put it aside as something that can’t be done instead of looking at an alternative way to do it.

[00:03:32.940] – Tim
And that doesn’t take the place of…I try to physically interact with kids and talk with them and, “Hey, nice shoes. What’s that book you’re reading?” Those kind of things. But if you’re lucky, you might be able to, if you’re doing it purposeful, maybe hit 20-25% of the kids every day. But this way, I can hit 100% of the kids once a week, like I said, in just a way that is just not possible.

[00:03:54.840] – Steve
Well, talk to us about some of the ways that you do this. In your article – and by the way, we’ll make sure that your article gets tied in with a link here so that people can go find it, but you mentioned several different strategies that you use. So you want to walk us through a couple of those?

[00:04:14.680] – Tim
Yeah. And it’s cool to write articles for Edutopia because technically, you get paid by George Lucas. So as a giant nerd myself, it’s a neat thing.

[00:04:25.165] – Steve
[laughter]

[00:04:25.480] – Tim
And I say this all the time when I work with teachers – if we don’t share what we’re doing in our classrooms, it’s not bragging, but we’re letting others control the conversation about education. And so as many times as we can share, that’s a powerful thing to do. So I started doing this. I’ve been around for a while, and I was brought in with the idea of, don’t let them see a smile until Christmas kind of thing. Make them fear you at the beginning of the school year. As the year goes on, you can open up a little bit more, all those kinds of things. And I wish I could go back and change all that for maybe the first 10 years or so as I was teaching. Not that I wasn’t kind and things like that, but I had never really taken the human aspect with this. And so at the end of the school year, I would always show this great video, and that’s in the article. The gentleman’s name is Rick Rigsby, “Lessons From a Third-grade Dropout.”

[00:05:16.370] – Tim
And he talks about how his father was, quote, unquote, only a third-grade student, and then he dropped out of school. But it’s all about what his father taught him and how to overcome these obstacles in life and all these things. And it focuses on making making as much of an impact on this life as you can while you’re here. At the end of the year, you know the kids. It’s great. It’s easy to do. I’m a giant introvert. But by the end of the year, you build your small family there. And then one year, my students made me promise to begin the school year with this video and the discussion. And so I did. And it was a terrifying experience to open up when I don’t know these kids. I have anxiety, I have depression. I talk very openly with the kids about this and as an introvert. But then we also talk about not letting these things get in your way. And so for me, that video is a way to open up those conversations. I would always give that get to know me survey at the beginning of the year. What books do you like to read?

[00:06:18.420] – Tim
Where are you into? All those things that we do as teachers. Then you read through it, and then you put it in your binder and you forget about it. Now, I do it about once every two weeks. I change up the questions, and I tie it into current events. In the video, like I said, he focuses very much on how you live in. That’s the title of my survey. It’s just how you live in. It might be as simple as watch a short five-minute video about the news, give me some feedback about it, and then honestly, just, how are you doing? What’s going on this week? Sometimes it’s as simple as that. Other times, I might throw at them a six or seven question survey, and it might be things like, towards the end of a marking period or when there’s midterms, and I’ll say things like, what are your major obstacles to finding success in school this year? It’s not just about my classroom. It’s about the holistic approach of everything going on that I’m finding out. Because in a high school, you’re not on a team. There’s days go by where I don’t really talk to other adults in the building because we don’t interact as much.

[00:07:24.640] – Tim
It gives me a peek into these other classrooms. Then I’ll say things like, another And the question is, what do you need the most help with? And it doesn’t have to be with school. It could be with time management. It could be with studying, it could be with another teacher, it could be with my classroom. And then I ask, and this is always a hard one for them, “Where are you finding your greatest success in school right now?” And for them, they’re so used to, “Oh, I only got this grade, and I only got that grade…” Forcing them to talk about what they’re doing that they’re successful at. And so when I give grades out, I can’t get to see a D, even an F. I always find something in their work that was done well. I’ll put stickers on their work and things like that. They’re not just that grade. Also in the survey, I’ll ask, “What is the one thing that you wish that I, as your teacher, knew about you?” That can be anything from, they might answer something silly to it might be something really serious, it might be something that they’re really…they want to have a chance to share, but they’re too shy to share in class.

[00:08:20.600] – Tim
And so it gives them that voice with me. And then I’ll ask, “Reflect on our class this year. “How are we,”and that’s really important – “how are we doing? Not just you as a student, but how am I doing as a teacher? What’s working? What’s not working?” I’ve been teaching long enough that I’m okay with stopping a lesson right smack in the middle of it if it’s not working. And if there’s a principal in the room, it doesn’t phase me no least. I think that’s an important piece of education is that I fail, too, as a teacher. That’s also being human. “What’s a goal you have set for yourself this year?” It might have nothing to do with school. It might have to do… I’ve heard about weight lifting. I’ve heard about wrestling, swimming times. I’ve heard about marathons. I’ve heard about entering into contests. I’ve heard about all kinds of neat things that the kids are doing outside of my classroom. And by the way, this helps a lot when I write college recommendations as well, because I’m not just writing about grades and things.

[00:09:22.240] – Tim
And then the only other one that I really change up with is, and I found a lot of value in this because I got really upset, you give the kids a lot of feedback, you give them an assignment, and some of the kids look at it, and then they throw it in their bag or they never look at it. I don’t give them a grade for major assignments. They have to grade themselves. And so part of that survey is, what did you do well? What do you need to work on? Those kinds of questions. So that they’re forced to use specific evidence, textual evidence, high school teacher, from my feedback. And then they get to share what they did well, what they need to work on. They pair share with a partner, and then they have to grade themselves. And usually I find the students grade themselves way too harshly. They’re way too hard on themselves. And it’s really neat to say they grade themselves, and I gave myself a B or a C. I’m like, oh, no, actually, this is the grade I’m going to give you. And so then you see them puff up, you see them to be very proud of themselves, and it makes them part of the process rather than just they come in, there’s an assignment on their desk, and then you just teach.

[00:10:27.260] – Tim
It’s a lot different to have them part the conversation.

[00:10:31.400] – Steve
Wow. You’ve pumped a whole bunch of things out here for me to follow.

[00:10:36.100] – Tim
Sorry.

[00:10:36.900] – Steve
No, I’m really glad. The first one I got to tell you is the timing is very interesting because I’m working with three different schools currently with teachers taking a look at feedback to students on work and that issue that kids don’t pay any attention to graded feedback is one of the first ones that that we jump into. I’m wondering, because you’re surveying the kids and getting their input along the way, I wonder when you bring that around to an assignment where you’re asking them to give their assessment of their work, whether they jump into that a little better than students would if a teacher just begins with asking them to look at their work and and figure out the feedback they got from the teacher.

[00:11:33.180] – Tim
Yeah, that’s an important piece of it. I think COVID really brought this home for me because even though my kids were at home and on the computers, we had already built this community, and so we were still able to maintain those relationships even that was on the screen. The way that I do this, I don’t know if I said this in the beginning, but we have Schoology for our learning platform, whatever you might have, chalkboard, whatever. But they submit this in writing digitally. Most of the things I do in my classroom does not involve computers, but in this case, I do. It’s just the kids get used to it. It’s part of the pattern. It’s nothing new for them. But you’re right, because in the beginning of the year, it’s funny when you look because their get to know me survey in the beginning of the year, really short answers because here’s this old guy up in front of the room. I don’t know who he is. But by this time in the year now, the answers I’m getting, wow, that I just I would never have gotten at the beginning of the year. And then they continue I need to get deeper and deeper and deeper as the course of the year goes.

[00:12:32.640] – Tim
And there’s some kids that will never go beyond a couple of words, and they don’t feel comfortable sharing a whole lot. And that’s fine, too. It’s not a forced therapy session. That’s not what I’m here for.

[00:12:44.760] – Steve
That probably tells you something as well, though.

[00:12:47.120] – Tim
Yeah, I agree.

[00:12:48.280] – Steve
The degree of what they share with you. Well, listening to you now, you triggered another piece that I had written down here. And it sounds like there’s some risk-taking and vulnerability that’s necessary. I think I heard you say you model that. Then I’m guessing as the time goes on, students become more and more comfortable taking that risk and being vulnerable in their responses to you.

[00:13:13.840] – Tim
Yeah. I just got a note in my mailbox to start today on Monday, and it was a note from a student. And you get a handwritten note from a teenager like, wow. But the gist of it at the end, she said this one sentence of, “Thank you so much for sharing about your vulnerabilities and some of the struggles in your life, I’m glad to know that I’m not the only one.” And that, yes, I want them to write five paragraph essays and research papers, and I want them to know about our government and question things and be civically engaged. But I also want them to know that they’re a human being and that they’re seen.

[00:13:46.900] – Steve
Yeah, powerful. The other one, I’ll stick this in for the listeners, a resource. But I’ve pointed people a couple of times to a piece, a presentation from Search Institute that looks at student relationships. They have something that they call the 4S’s interview. That the teacher working, especially looking at a student who’s struggling, or the teacher has questions about them, but they talk about uncovering the student’s four S’s. The four S’s are: Sparks, strengths, struggles, and supports. The spark is, what’s your passion? What are you interested? What do you see as your strengths? What do you see as your struggles? Then what are the places or the people who support you? As I was listening to you go through the various questions you’re asking kids, it sounded to me like all four of those are likely to pop up at some time.

[00:15:02.380] – Tim
Yeah, I like that, though, that idea of, like Mr. Rogers would say, “look for the helpers.” I like that. I might actually work that into my surveys. Who’s that around you? Who’s helping you? I love that.

[00:15:12.600] – Steve
Yeah. Because if a kid says nobody, then you know you got one you really need to zero in on.

[00:15:22.040] – Tim
Yeah.

[00:15:23.240] – Steve
I touch on that when I work with high schools looking at advisor advisee programs. We’re a teacher serving as an advisor to a group of kids. I share that you don’t have to be the kid’s person, but you need to know who that is. If you know the kid is into baseball and they got this connection with their coach, and you know that if a problem comes up, that’s the person you can turn to. But if what you uncover is that a kid has nobody, then as an advisor, that comes a spot where you really got to look at how zero in.

[00:16:01.320] – Tim
Yeah. We do a lot of mentor relationships as well. A lot of times the kids will sign up for it on their own, and they give a listing of their different interests and things, and we try to match adults with them. It’s a really, really powerful experience. On top of everything else that we have to do as educators, but there’s certain things that are just more important.

[00:16:20.980] – Steve
Bingo, bingo, bingo. Actually, that takes me into my next question then. I frequently I’ll really talk when you’re asking people to look at something that they might do in their teaching, what I call the cost-benefit link. If you’re going to take this on to make this change in your teaching, what’s it going to cost you to do it? And then you’re weighing that cost against the benefit. I’m wondering, as you look at the work that you’re doing here, what do you see as the cost? I know that you’re reading that the benefits are outweighing the cost to you.

[00:17:04.000] – Tim
Most days. It can be a lot. For one thing, if you’re asking the kids to share information with you, you can’t look at that a week later. It’s got to be that day. They might be sharing about a sports game over the weekend. They might be sharing something that they’re stressed out about. You got to set other things aside when you put those whatever is out there. If you let it go a week, the kids are not going to buy in anymore. Sometimes I’ve had to get kids some serious help. You don’t want a kid walking out the door on Friday and they say something that needs to be addressed. Sometimes we’ve had to do that. There’s that. It’s an emotional toll. They talk a lot about that in education that we’ve got. I forget what it’s called, but we have that secondary stressors coming from the kids. I my own children at home, too, and those stressors and things. If you’re just getting your feet on the ground, and I’m a mentor to new teachers as well, and maybe this is not something that you get as involved in. Maybe it’s something a lot simpler in terms of just ask the kids, say, “Hey, what’s something going on this week?”

[00:18:17.250] – Tim
Maybe not make it on that deep of a level if you’re not prepared for that. Because if you’re not prepared to respond, you’re going to break that trust with the kids. I say all the time, you can be a well-meaning teacher, but if you’re not prepared for things, things to have certain conversations, you could actually do more harm. So this is something that, again, I’ve been teaching for a long time now. I would not have done my first couple of years unless I had somebody else to talk to who’s had this experience. I could share those kinds of things with me. But yeah, in terms of the benefits, it reminds me on a weekly basis why I’m a teacher. It reminds me and lets me connect with these kids and the laughter. And I have best piece of advice I ever got was to have a good news binder when I first started teaching and now I have multiple binders. And so a lot of these things I will print out, the cards, the emails, the things that we forget about because teachers are really hard on ourselves. And if something goes wrong, it can ruin my entire day or week or what have you.

[00:19:15.180] – Tim
But I’ll go home and I’ll flip through that good news binder. And so for me, it’s not just about saving the kids. It’s literally also saves me, too.

[00:19:24.000] – Steve
Wow. I hadn’t thought about the benefit that way. I think compassion fatigue is what you were – is that the phrase?

[00:19:33.260] – Tim
Yeah. Compassion fatigue.

[00:19:34.970] – Steve
This is actually an antidote to compassion fatigue. You’re seeing the payoff and the benefits from that stress that comes from tying into the lives of the kids.

[00:19:49.920] – Tim
Yeah. It also opens up the conversation that their teachers are people, too, and their principals, and their guidance counselor. Everybody in that building is going through something every day. I think if we see the world that way, it changes the way we react, because a lot of times those negative interactions really have very little to do with me and that child. It has to do with external type things. This has helped me to be much more understanding of that.

[00:20:18.880] – Steve
Early on, you used the word human, and that’s powerful. Let’s find out one new piece about you. When I went to your website and I saw that you were called, The History Comic, was it?

[00:20:35.200] – Tim
Yeah, on social media, that’s me, History Comics. And my email is historycomicsguy. And I always say I should switch my legal name to That Comic Guy, but yeah.

[00:20:44.400] – Steve
Tell us a little bit about that.

[00:20:46.940] – Tim
So this all came hand in hand. I had years ago, long story short, was on my way out of teaching. It was an awful year. It had nothing to do with what was going on in my classroom. And I started looking around for who knows what else I was going to do. And I realized if I was at that point, then I want to teach the way that I want to teach. And I’d never brought in… I’m a rule follower. I never brought in hip hop. I never brought in comics, those kinds of things. And when I started to, I had students who reacted in ways that just opened up the door. The nerds like I was in school that didn’t have an outlet. And here’s this old white guy talking about hip hop. Just staying relevant with the kids. And I just started doing my thing. I started writing articles for PBS News Hour. I traveled around the country, and I present at comic cons and libraries. I do professional development for school districts. I’ve taught at the University of Pennsylvania. I worked for the US State Department. We did work across the world on comics and education and things.

[00:21:50.440] – Tim
If nothing else, I would say, find that thing that you’re passionate about as a teacher. If you can bring that into your classroom, it changes everything. It really made me fall in love with teaching all over again. My administration, my district has been very supportive, and I do my thing. Yes, we do everything else. I’m a very challenging teacher. You can ask my kids, they’ll tell you that. But because I’m passionate about things, they’re passionate about things, and you put it all together, and it’s really been cool.

[00:22:20.600] – Steve
Well, this has just been great, Tim. What’s the best way for listeners to get back in touch with you or follow up if they have a question?

[00:22:30.400] – Tim
My website, probably the easiest thing is teachingwithcomics.com. You can reach out to me there. I’ve got lots of free lesson plans and ideas and resources and all that stuff that’s there. I would say just start there. That’s an easy thing to do. I’m always happy to talk to people about these types of things.

[00:22:48.620] – Steve
We’ll make that happen. Thanks so much.

[00:22:51.620] – Tim
Thank you, Steve. A really great conversation.

[00:22:55.700] – Steve [Outro]
Thanks for listening, folks. I’d love to hear what you’re pondering. You can find me on Twitter or LinkedIn at Steve Barkley, or send me your questions and find my videos and blogs at barkleypd.com.

 




Podcast: Finding Awe While Learning

I heard about a great experience illustrating awe in learning that was shared by a group of middle school students and their teacher in Grand Island, New York. They joined me on this podcast sharing their reflections and insights. As you hear their story consider where these elements of Awe appeared:

  • Awe occurs when we experience something much larger than ourselves
  • Awe leads to the need to reframe one’s understanding of the world.
  • Awe often brings forth emotions of humility, gratitude, and compassion.
  • Awe is linked to prosocial behavior: people are more likely to help others after experiencing awe.

Connect with the teacher, Lora Randles: lorarandles@gicsd.org

Subscribe to the Steve Barkley Ponders Out Loud podcast on iTunes or visit BarkleyPD.com to find new episodes!

Podcast Transcript:

[00:00:00.000] – Steve [Intro]
Welcome to the Steve Barkley Ponders Out Loud podcast. As instructional coaches and school leaders, you are tasked with guiding continuous teacher growth to create student success. This podcast looks to support you with strategies from experienced guests, as well as my own insights that I’ve gathered over the years. I’m thrilled to have you with us. Thanks for tuning in.

[00:00:29.540] – Steve
Find Leading Awe While Learning. While I’ve been involved in writing a chapter for a book about awe in learning, I heard about a great experience generated by a group of middle school students in Grand Island in New York and their teachers. Their superintendent posted about their work with a note that said, “The students were learning with heart and leading with purpose.” As you hear their story, consider where these elements of awe connect. Awe occurs when we experience something much larger than ourselves. Awe leads to the need to reframe one’s understanding of the world. Awe often brings forth emotions of humility, gratitude, and compassion. Lastly, awe is linked to pro-social behavior. People are more likely to help each other after experiencing awe. I’m excited to have Lora Randalls, an ELA middle school teacher, and her students, Fiona and Logan, sharing their stories with us today on the podcast.

[00:01:49.540] – Steve
Welcome, folks, and thanks so much for joining us.

[00:01:52.840] – Lora
Hi. Thanks for having us.

[00:01:55.220] – Steve
Lora, you shared with me earlier that this unit, built around the book, “A Long Walk to Water,” has been part of your instruction at the school for a few years. Would you share with us how it was selected and what you’ve learned about the power of the book across the years with students?

[00:02:16.540] – Lora
So it was about 16 years ago, and New York State had just started implementing this new curriculum and one of the books in their curriculum, they called them Modules – and they were leaning towards these four modules. And one of the books in a module was “A Long Walk to Water.” And I had never read the book before, but as I began delving into these new standards, I started by reading the book. And if you want to talk about an awe moment as an educator, it’s actually sitting in a staff development, probably should have been paying more attention to the speaker, but got caught up in this book, which is an appropriate middle school level. So I ended up finishing it in that setting and thinking to myself, I don’t love the module that New York State’s prepared, but this book’s a keeper. And I knew from that moment on that this book was going to be both changing in my life as an educator, but also for the lives of my students. But what it did is just so much more than I could have ever anticipated – this impact that it’s had on them and me personally in my life as well.

[00:03:30.000] – Steve
Logan, as you read the book, what impact did it have on you?

[00:03:38.620] – Logan
When I was reading the book, it was just very wild to think that kids my age were going through that stuff. I go to school, I go home, I have fun. And kids over in South Sudan were running from wars and stuff. And it was really wild to think about, but just hearing saw the story was so impactful. He’s just such a powerful person. He came from being in war, being in this war-set environment to now helping everyone in South Sudan and those places without water. It’s just super changing of what he’s done.

[00:04:23.280] – Steve
Fiona, talk about a piece that especially caught your attention.

[00:04:28.900] – Fiona
Just how lucky we are to have running power and electricity and heat and water and air conditioning because it never really occurred to me how lucky we are because these kids have to go and get a bucket and fetch water every single day for their village. And even when they go and walk the entire day to get the water, it’s filled with harmful bacterias and sicknesses. And so that’s just a really big struggle. And I didn’t really realize how lucky we are to have clean water and fresh water, and that we don’t have to spend our entire day walking to get water that’s just filled with bacteria and that’s going to make us sick anyways.

[00:05:13.600] – Steve
Lora, what led to the move from reading the book to the decision to engage in the Water for South Sudan project?

[00:05:23.520] – Lora
Well, I feel like I would be amiss if I didn’t say a little bit about the book.

[00:05:28.240] – Steve
Yeah, please.

[00:05:29.400] – Lora
Okay. The book itself was written by Linda Sue Park. Salva is a true person. He was a Sudanese refugee who became known as the Lost Boys back in the ’80s. When these boys from South Sudan were relocated to America, they began their lives here. As Logan said, Salva has now dedicated his life to bring water back to the people of his original country. Reading the book, Salva as a real person, and he speaks it like engagements, church, civic organizations, schools, and he had to gather a lot of money to get his project started. It just so happened that Newbury, a winning author, Linda Sue Park, was in the audience at a church in Rochester when Salva was speaking. She was so moved by his story that she decided she wanted to write a biography about him. But she wanted to write it for middle school students as that was Salva’s age when his journey began. So as Salva gets separated from his family at about 11 years old, he flees to what they call in Africa as the Bush, only to never return home. And Salva travels for 11 years over thousands of miles of the wild truck of Africa swamp lands, areas inhabited by dangerous lions, crossing rivers filled with crocodiles to different refugee camps, only to find life they’re not as much better than just his survival in the wild.

[00:07:16.320] – Lora
When the United States found out that this was happening in other countries around the world, they started to bring these Sudanese refugee kids over to America. But they couldn’t have been a soldier. They had to be orphans. And Salva met criteria, and they had to have a vision. They wanted to bring something to America. They wanted these people to come to get educated. And Salva learned English from one of the workers in the park. So he comes to America, and he’s relocated right here in Rochester. And the family that he lives with helps him adjust to life in America. He goes to Monroe Community College, graduates with a business degree. And then all of a sudden, after he’s lived in America about six, seven years, he checks his email. This is a fun point in our lesson when we’re like, How far Salva has come? Now that he’s checking his email.

[00:08:06.270] – Steve
[laughter]

[00:08:06.860] – Lora
He realizes that an old cousin from his back in Sudan says he thinks that he’s found his father at a clinic suffering from some waterborne illness from drinking the water. Salva and his new family in the United States help him get all the paperwork in order.

[00:08:24.410] – Lora
He travels back to South Sudan, finds out, yes, this, in fact, is his father. He gets spend a week with his father. It’s very moving. It’s a very powerful moment. And Salva then has to return to the United States, not knowing if he’ll ever see his father again. So at this point in Salva’s life, he realizes he wants to give back. He wants to do something. And his dream is he wants to bring water to the people of South Sudan. So things like that are happening to his father don’t happen to others. So to do this, Salva needs to start a nonprofit organization, and he needs to do it from scratch. He needs to start at the beginning. So he starts, as I started my story, by talking to civic organizations and schools. And it takes him a lot of years to raise enough money to bring his first well to South Sudan, which would be built in his original village of Lunarik, and where he was reunited with his mother and his sisters that he hadn’t seen at that point in over 20 years. So at this point now, after all these years have gone by, and Water for South Sudan has now been up and running for about 20 years, he’s brought more than 600 wells to South Sudan.

[00:09:41.980] – Lora
He teaches hygiene with water, planting crops with water, how to preserve water, how to maintain wells, and all of these components. And the well is never to be used just for one village, and they have to share it with anybody who comes. So Linda Sue Park writes this manuscript, and it’s 900 pages. She’s like, okay, this isn’t going to apply with middle schoolers.

[00:10:07.650] – Steve
[laughter]

[00:10:07.650] – Lora
This is a fabulous story of Salva’s life. She goes back to the drawing board, and I tell my students this, too, not once, not twice, nine times.

[00:10:17.260] – Steve
Oh, wow.

[00:10:18.050] – Lora
Nine times until she gets this version of Salva’s story that she’s satisfied with. So it’s condensed to about 120 pages. She’s still not satisfied. Linda Sue Park says there’s just something missing. She goes, yes, this is a story about Salva, about water. But when we’ve learned about the water in Africa, it’s really the girls whose lives revolve around the fetching, the gathering of water, the boiling of water, washing with water. The girls are the ones who have to transport using their lives. The boys hunt. They are more likely to get an education. So Linda Sue Park created a composite character. She created a fictional character, a girl about Salva’s age, and she named her Nia, which is just a popular name in South Sudan.

[00:11:07.960] – Lora
Nia’s story was told at the beginning of every chapter, much shorter, maybe a page to two pages, just telling about Nia’s very monotonous, very mundane life of gathering water, coming back for lunch, gathering water again, having to teach her little sister how to gather the water, her little sister becoming ill during the rainy sees in them having to move to an area closer to a lake bed. But then there’s tribal wars on top of the Civil War. So there’s all these components going into the story. So at the end of the book, When Salva is working on building his wells, Nia is from a rival tribe. So at the end of the book, the little girl Nia is asking her, Uncle, why did Salva bring the water to our village? Why would it Dinka to bring water to the newer tribe. Her uncle said, Well, he wants to bring water to all the people of South Sudan, not just to his own tribe, the Dinka. At the end of the book, Linda Sue Parks creates this very moving moment when Nia goes up to Salva and thanks him for bringing the water. I cry every year.

[00:12:20.040] – Lora
It’s just such a lovely full circle moment. At this point, these kids are engaged. They’re engaged in Nia’s story, even though it’s fictional, they can relate to this arduous task of having to gather water day in and day out, and they see what Salva has done in the world to make a difference. That is the story of why Linda Sue Park wrote the book. Now, her and Salva are very close. They do speaking engagements together. Prior to these students I have with me today, Logan and Fiona, we actually taken a group of students that we were able to see Linda Linda Sue Park and Salva together and talking about the creation of the book. I’m going to let Logan tell you a little bit about when we saw Salva this last time and how his message now has changed a little bit, if that’s appropriate for this point in the conversation?

[00:13:18.900] – Steve
Yeah, I have to tell you, I’m awed. I’m awed listening to the story from you, and I love the passing on of awe. Linda Sue Park gets odd the first time she hears Salva, and then she writes the book that puts you into awe, and now you’ve got this great opportunity sharing it with the kids. I’d love to hear Logan’s insights.

[00:13:44.600] – Lora
This year, Salva came – it was a Sunday, so we couldn’t take a field trip. So voluntarily, students were able to just go hear him speak at a local church. So Logan was one of the students who came out to meet Salva. So I’ll him tell you about that day.

[00:14:01.680] – Logan
So I remember going in there and then just actually seeing him in person was just like, wow. Because you think about all that he’s went through, and now he’s here in front of you, telling you about what he’s doing with the water for South Sudan and everything. Then after he was done explaining how he helps people and makes wells, he actually sat down and then he would sign books and meet people. There was a line to him because, of course, there’s a line. Then it was so big. To just think, when I was getting closer to it, I think, I’m going to meet him. It’s just so like, wow, like what I said before, of what he’s been through, and now I’m going to shake his hand and stuff.

[00:14:53.140] – Steve
You’ve given a great description of awe for our listeners.

[00:14:58.120] – Lora
Definitely. He’s very great gracious. One of my students who drew him a picture, and Salva was kind enough to let my student bring the picture up for him. He’s like, Salva, I drew this picture for you, and he was very gracious, and it was very sweet.

[00:15:16.120] – Steve
Fiona, I’m wondering, how did you get engaged with raising the funds that your class raised?

[00:15:25.340] – Fiona
I went home that day and I was telling my parents Salva’s story, and they were very touched by it. And so I also called up some of my relatives, and I told them Salva’s story and just how hard his life was and how hard life is still for people in Sudan. And they were crying on the phone. They were so touched and awed by his story. So they donated to the fundraiser. And we did a walk the entire seventh grade, our entire team. We did a walk around the track a few times. It was in the hot sun. And I couldn’t imagine walking in the hot sun every day to get water for your entire village because I was barely walking in the hot heat on our track because it was so hot. But we walked for water, and we did that all as a community. It was a really cool thing to just see so many people get together and actually care about his story and what it means.

[00:16:27.140] – Steve
I really hear the awe experience keeps rippling out to other people getting engaged in it.

[00:16:37.720] – Lora
One of the local Aquanis Club heard about the story, and then they donated a couple of thousand dollars to support the kids. So by the end of the walk, the kids had raised all of this money going towards a second well that we would bring to South Sudan. And so we were really proud of them.

[00:17:00.660] – Steve
Very cool. I’m wondering, Logan and Fiona, do other times at school and other projects that you’ve been engaged in, can you connect to another time that you got that awe experience? Anything come to mind?

[00:17:22.180] – Logan
It was actually in Mrs. Randall’s classroom again. At the beginning of the year, we were reading this book called “The Outsiders,” and It’s like the whole book’s made up, but it’s about the Greasers back in the ’60s. I did not expect it to turn out how it did. I love the book so much. I had to buy the copy of it. I’m actually going to see the Outsiders play this weekend.

[00:17:55.620] – Steve
Very cool.

[00:17:56.370] – Lora
The Outsiders, the Broadway musical is Buffalo this week.

[00:18:01.080] – Steve
Oh, wow.

[00:18:01.890] – Lora
The Outsiders’ book, I’ll let you, Fiona tell you a little about it, but it’s just a great novel in not judging a book by its cover. It’s these really poor, beat-up-looking kids, and the rich, popular kids taunt them and jump them and things. It’s just a really great book for the kids as well.

[00:18:26.660] – Steve
Fiona, I’m wondering what words of advice you might offer to teachers as well as students about the opportunities to be engaged in those kinds of learning experiences that create awe?

[00:18:45.700] – Fiona
Just that it’s very important to learn about other people’s stories and points of view because you don’t really know what others are going through because you can’t really tell until you read about it or they tell you about it. I feel like reading a story about somebody else’s life, it doesn’t even have to be “A Long Walk to Water.” Another book about somebody’s struggles during a hard time or some event in history can really help you open your eyes and see what’s going on in the world around you and what happened in the world around you. It can make us learn from that and move on from that.

[00:19:28.380] – Lora
I know in eighth grade, you’re going to read Diary of Anne Frank, so that might be impactful, too.

[00:19:33.240] – Steve
For sure. Fiona, I want to tell you, you just gave a great description that matches what the researchers are writing about awe, and that it gives you a perspective of the world around you that you didn’t have before. You clearly labeled that. Logan, any words of advice to teachers and students about these kinds of learning opportunities?

[00:20:04.900] – Logan
I mean, some of the most important things with teachers is the teachers have to… They cannot just read the book and be done with it. They have to incorporate some of the book with their classes, and they have to actually make the book fun. Because during “A Long Walk to Water,” when we first started reading it or we walked around the school with holding a water while walking.

[00:20:35.350] – Lora
We also made these hay canoe things, which it’s taking that stuff from the book and turning it into something that you could do in class just makes learning about it so much better.

[00:20:48.640] – Logan
So you’re not just sitting there bored out of your mind. You get to actually not experience it, but kind of experience it.

[00:20:57.220] – Steve
Well, Logan and Fiona, I I can tell you the two of you are ready to do a workshop for teachers. I’ll look to sign you up. I’ll tell you this, you’re giving your teacher awe as she gets to listen to you because I can sit here and watch it happening on the screen. Lora, I’m just wondering any closing thoughts of advice you’d give to teachers about stepping into these kinds of opportunities?

[00:21:28.740] – Lora
Well, I feel like this book really speaks for yourself itself, and it touches a lot of people. Taking that little extra step and connecting with Water for South Sudan network – they give a lot of educational opportunities communities, and they provide a lot of different ways for educators. So whether it be a walk for water, they have a literal walk for water, sorry. They have what’s called the Iron Draft Challenge. So schools are able to raise funds and if you raise a certain amount, you can win a visit with Salva, or you can win a visit with Linda Sue Park. So they offer incentives. Because of the popularity of the book, it’s really been the success of Water for South Sudan. And then they give other ideas just for curriculum, and they also give different ideas for fundraisers for kids to try to help, even if kids are… I mean, our fundraisers turned into something school-wide and something rather big. But even if it’s a small fundraiser where students are raising $20, it’s still showing the students the power of giving, the power of that they are able to do something, that this doesn’t have to happen. This is what’s happening in the world, and they can make a difference.

[00:22:48.850] – Lora
I tell them the story, I’m Salva’s age exactly. While I’m teaching the story, I refer to Salva as 11-year-old, and he’s escaping in the bush running for his life and finding water, finding food, hiding from soldiers, trying not to get kidnapped. So he has to fight. And I went to middle school like them. And the next year, when Salva lived in a refugee camp, I went to high school where they’re going to go. And I tell them this is the year that, to remember the song “We Are the World?” “We Are the World” gets released. So at this point, it was directly talking about the children of Ethiopia. But as middle school students ourselves, we didn’t know that there was a crisis in Africa, the same as these kids. And it wasn’t until that time in my life that I realized that there are people in the world that don’t have food, that don’t have water. Just from this song, “We are the World,” that brought a lot of awareness. I feel like the book brings a lot of awareness. The organization Water for South Sudan, it’s not just fundraising. When you’re walking around with a T-shirt on, you bring an awareness to these causes that are bigger than you and things that humble you and make you really appreciate what you have and the life that you’ve been given.

[00:24:13.160] – Steve
You’ve just labeled awe. Bigger than you. Appreciate. It’s very, very powerful. Lora, I’m wondering, is there a way that you’d be okay with any listeners touching base with you if they had questions and wanted to learn more you?

[00:24:30.940] – Lora
Sure, of course. They could email me right at my school email address, which is just my full name. Again, none of my name is spelled normal, so lorarandles@gicsd.org.

[00:24:57.160] – Steve
Thank you so much. And extend a thank you to your superintendent for putting the post on LinkedIn and allowing me to find out about it.

[00:25:04.800] – Lora
I will. Thank you so much.

[00:25:08.000] – Steve [Outro]
Thanks for listening, folks. I’d love to hear what you’re pondering. You can find me on Twitter or LinkedIn at Steve Barkley, or send me your questions and find my videos and blogs at barkleypd.com.

 




Podcast: Supporting New and Untenured Teachers

Supporting New and Untenured Teachers

Amber Chandler, the author of “Everything New Teachers Need to Know But Are Afraid to Ask,” shares a program her district implemented to address that 140 out of its 478 teachers have been with the district four years or less—and the ranks of untenured teachers are expected to swell to 250 in the next five years. That’s approximately half of the teaching staff needing support, not just in year one, but also in years two, three, and four. Chandler sees the challenge but also an opportunity to create a community of educators from the ground up. How do instructional coaches support new teachers and mentors?

Red Amber’s Ed Week Article, “Going NUTs: How One District Supports Its ‘New and Untenured’ Teachers” here. 

Find “Everything New Teachers Need to Know But Are Afraid to Ask” here. 

Contact Amber and visit her website here.

Podcast Transcript:

[00:00:00.000] – Steve [Intro]
Welcome to the Steve Barkley Ponders Out Loud podcast. As instructional coaches and school leaders, you are tasked with guiding continuous teacher growth to create student success. This podcast looks to support you with strategies from experienced guests, as well as my own insights that I’ve gathered over the years. I’m thrilled to have you with us. Thanks for tuning in.

[00:00:30.000] – Steve
Supporting New and Untenured Teachers. The author of, “Everything New Teachers Need to Know but Are Afraid to Ask,” Amber Chandler, is our podcast guest today. She is a National Board Certified Middle School ELA teacher with a master’s degree in literature, and she’s certified as a school building leader. I was introduced to Amber in an Education Week article that described a program that she has designed to support new and untenured teachers in her district. Amber identifies that teaching can be a lonely business, but if new teachers can build community and become committed together, they can strengthen education. Welcome, Amber.

[00:01:18.780] – Amber
Hi.

[00:01:19.760] – Steve
Glad to have you with us. The article in EdWeek described the situation regarding new and untenured teachers in your district. I’m wondering if you’d share that with us. I’m guessing that it’s representative of what many school districts are facing in the coming years.

[00:01:38.080] – Amber
Absolutely. It’s what I’ve been hearing across the state, at least in New York anyway, that we have this bubble of teachers who are going to be retiring in the next five-ish years. And already in my district, we have 158 new and untenured teachers out of around 460. And so that number, if it’s going to I think we’re going to flip our district in the next five years of having more untenured than tenured.

[00:02:06.800] – Steve
Wow. How do you see that impacting both those new teachers as a group and the rest of the staff?

[00:02:19.000] – Amber
Well, it’s interesting because the teachers who’ve been there for a long time, the veteran teachers, I’ve been teaching with the same people for over 20 years. You get comfortable and you know each other’s strengths and weaknesses. You work together as a team. With that many new and untenured teachers, it’s really important to me that we connect them together so that they can lean on each other. Like you said, it’s really lonely to teach. As these more veteran teachers are retiring, I really want to make sure that the new teachers have developed a good community of support for each other.

[00:02:54.000] – Steve
So tell us about the program that you designed.

[00:02:57.720] – Amber
So, AFT, I got a grant from the American Federation of Teachers, and it was for new member engagement. These are my new members. I had pitched my proposal was to figure out a way to help connect the new teachers, basically, as a part of a Attracting teachers is that you have a good support system, but retaining teachers is making those connections. In general, I feel that adults have a difficult time creating community without some direction and some help around that, especially if you’re a new teacher, you’re busy, you are overwhelmed. And unless it’s on your schedule, you probably won’t do it. And so that was how it started. We set up some different social events It was mainly time to get people in the same room. And we get the new teachers together, and they can ask questions. A lot of times, we played Trivia. We did a lot of things to make them feel comfortable in the community that they I have. My district heard that I was doing this. They knew that I was doing this. They have a traditional first-year mentoring program like most schools do. The HR director and I talked, and he wanted to combine forces.

[00:04:16.920] – Amber
That if the district was working on the first year, that I was working on the second, third, and fourth year, that could we… Last year was a little bit of a trial year where we were crossing over. Then this year, my program became a part of the district program.

[00:04:36.840] – Steve
How does your program connect with what the mentors are doing?

[00:04:41.740] – Amber
Mine actually is… Right now, it’s pretty loose because this is the first year we’re moving in that direction. The mentors, every new teacher, first year teacher will have a mentor. Years two through four will be… A lot of it is almost like coaching on my part. I’m going to do a lot of things to I’m getting ready to send out my beginning of year self-care message. I will be doing some things where I hold office hours so that they can stop in. New teachers are busy, so once a month, the last Tuesday, I’m going to have a coffee Google Meet hour where I’ll be here having coffee and they can show up and ask questions. I’ll have topics that I know from my own mentoring that are important. September, relationships with families, October, looking at progress reports. I know the rhythm of a school year. So that’s how it’s going to go. But what is really cool is that a lot of the mentors are signing on to keep going with the program, and they’re jumping on their conversations. It’s unpaid from that perspective after their first year, but they see the investment, and I think that they like to have those conversations with their teachers as well.

[00:05:57.400] – Steve
The word that’s going through my mind I’ve been listening to you is belonging. That we’re real powerful looking at the need for students to find belonging in the school. But I’m hearing that’s a critical issue for us to be building with new teachers.

[00:06:21.140] – Amber
Absolutely. It’s been a bit of my focus, I think, for the last couple of years, more so since COVID. But the idea that we need to be in the same spaces and have both formal conversations, but a lot of informal conversations, that we need to do things together. We’re trying to bowl, we’re trying to… we’re going to book a boat, and we’re going to go do some things together because it’s in those activities, a lot of those third space activities, that that’s where you can really build the community so that when a new teacher needs help, that they know that they can text me, or they know that they can text another mentor, and they know the teachers who are in leadership who want to help them. If you’ve played Trivia or sat around and had snacks and really talked informally, it takes down a barrier. What we really try to do is provide those opportunities to help bridge that. I don’t think it’s new teachers. I think everybody needs the bridge right now to help them reconnect and find that belonging and find that sense of space.

[00:07:27.580] – Steve
I do a lot of work built around the concept that teaching is a team sport and the increase in complexity of what educators are being asked to deal with, you can’t tackle the building of kids social emotional skills as an isolated teacher in the classroom. You can’t develop students’ writing skills just in English class if it’s not carried over into their science and social studies classrooms. It’s really hard to build teams with people you don’t know.

[00:08:02.780] – Amber
Absolutely. One of the things I think is interesting, too, is I think that there’s a sense of community that develops where I had people who mentored me. I wasn’t even in New York. I was in New Hampshire. They weren’t formal, they weren’t paid. But I still look at a few of the teachers who took me under their wing as lifelong mentors. They’re people who have got me to where I am. I think it’s a big honor to be a mentor, not necessarily the ones that’s paired up by the district all the time, but to be a real mentor to someone and know that you’re having an influence in good practices that are going to go forward even after you retire and after you’ve moved on.

[00:08:43.340] – Steve
I’m wondering what experiences you had that led to your writing the book, “Everything New Teachers Need to Know, but are Afraid to Ask?”

[00:08:55.360] – Amber
I’ve mentored, probably in this district, I’ve probably mentored 10, 12, maybe 15 people over the years. But a few years ago, I had a new teacher. She was not a brand new teacher. She was just new to our district. She was probably 25, 26. She was next door, my classroom. What caused me to write the book was actually her, her name is Nicole. She said to me one day, she’s like, “You need to write all this down.” I thought it was funny because it wasn’t…these were not the professional conversations. These were the questions about health insurance. I always talk about, I just took whatever health insurance the person next to me took on that open path. You just don’t know what you don’t know. She would ask me questions about what clothes she should wear. She would ask me, I know one day on the way to school, she got sick. She caused me panic because she really didn’t know what to do. She’s like, “Well, I don’t think I should come in.” I’m like, “No, don’t come in the building.” But again, at that moment, she didn’t know who to call, how to get a sub at the last minute, because those are the don’t come up until they happen to you.

[00:10:02.460] – Amber
She really encouraged me. She’s actually there’s a picture of us at the beginning of the book. She encouraged me to write down some of our conversations. In fact, I’m her work mom. She calls me her work mom. I am older than that. That was disturbing enough that I was old enough to be her work mom. [laughter] But it was true. But those relationships really led me to think about the things I didn’t know about teaching weren’t related to the teaching of English. They were related to, well, how do you with parents who are difficult. I know for me, at least, I was very young when I started teaching. And so at 22, I had 18-year-old AP Lit students. Their parents would send me a lesson. And so it was how do you navigate those situations? And I think that that’s really what started the book idea. And then it was really my roles within that. What would I say to you as your work mom? And what would I say to you, again, as a union president? What would I say to you as your friend? Those are all roles that I would fill in a mentoring role.

[00:11:04.260] – Amber
I think a lot of people can feel that. It ended up being really fun because it was things that popped up during the course of a year. That’s really how the book got written.

[00:11:14.680] – Steve
Very cool. With your experiences across those years, and now the Gen Z folks being the incoming teachers, I’m wondering what thoughts you’ve got about both people working as mentors and people supporting the Gen Z population moving into schools?

[00:11:38.680] – Amber
I think it’s huge. I think that we cannot imagine me, I’m 51. I can’t imagine a teaching world where so many eyes were on me all of the time. And that is what they’re entering into. I always tell them, I did not have a computer in my classroom. I didn’t even have a phone in my classroom. I had a button that I called an office with a buzzer. And they always say to me, well, that must have been really hard. And my answer is always, no, it was much easier to have my classroom, and it was my classroom. And now with – I call them the students, the young people who are coming in, they have always lived in a very internet-connected world. The biggest thing I talk to mentors about is understanding that Gen Z has a few things figured out that I veteran teachers maybe could learn from, particularly they believe in a lot more in a work-life balance than we do. I know I grind. I’m like, I’m going to go, I’m going to do this, this, and this. That’s my personality, I think, shaped by what I thought a good worker looked like.

[00:12:47.020] – Amber
They don’t feel that way. They value their time. You hear the word boundaries a lot. They value those pieces that is, I think, probably really healthy. I just think we have to be careful how we presume them to be. I know that I’ve had conversations with more veteran teachers who are like, “Well, they just don’t put in the time and the effort that we did. Well, I don’t know how much our effort paid off of being free labor, which is what a lot of it was. Oh, well, you’re on tenure, so of course, you’re going to do this.” They don’t go that way. Then I think for the Gen Z teachers, I talk to them a lot about that it’s intimidating when they know a lot more than veteran teachers do about some touchy subjects, like technology. No one wants to be the person who doesn’t get it. When you have a new teacher with you and they can show you something, I always tell everybody, soak up everything you can get. I was actually just telling somebody the story today that I had a student teacher who taught me how to mirror and unmirror my screen on a smart board and then to my computer.

[00:13:54.000] – Amber
I remember thinking he was the most brilliant person I had ever met. He knew how to do that. At the same time, I remember being intimidated. I was a grown up who had been teaching for quite a while, and this kid comes in and just… he can do things I can’t do. So really, back and forth understanding that they’re going to see the world differently, but we all have the same goal of teaching students and learning together. I think we just have to give each other some grace around the areas that maybe are surprising in some ways for us to handle. I know the one thing I talk to the mentors about, because the role that I became in our district is I’m the mentor coordinator of second through fourth year. I talk to them about, you have to have really candid conversations about things like communication. I text with everyone I mentor, and there’s a number of people who don’t really want to text with their mentors. They don’t want to text or what time is the cut off at night? But you can have a conversation. Those are important things to talk about ahead of time, for sure.

[00:14:59.360] – Amber
My daughter – she’s in college, she’s a junior, she’s going to be a teacher. I keep telling her, I’m like, you have to get me by 9:00. She’s always telling me, “That’s when my night’s starting.” I understand that, but mine is not. You need to get me earlier. I think those conversations just It has to be frank, candid conversations.

[00:15:17.940] – Steve
I’m sensing there’s some great learning for both generations of teachers to do from each other.

[00:15:24.460] – Amber
Absolutely.

[00:15:25.560] – Steve
Insights on both ends that are valuable. How do you see mentor programs benefiting the experienced teachers who serve as mentors?

[00:15:37.400] – Amber
I think it’s rejuvenating to have conversations about different topics that you haven’t thought about for years. I know one of mine that was really interesting was about grading. I had a newer teacher, and he came to me in a panic towards the end of the corner, and he said, “My grades aren’t right.” “What do you mean?” He’s like, “They’re not getting the grades they’re supposed to.” I said, “What do you mean?” He said, “Well, this person is really not a C plus. They’re really a B.” I said, “Well, what are you doing in your grading?” We ended up having this great conversation about how he had weighted certain things, and he didn’t have enough class participation grades. I said, “Well, that’s your prerogative how many you’re going to have. But the way you’ve set it up now is it’s weighted very little, and you want it to be weighted more, or you want something to be weighted less.” That conversation got me thinking. It was just out of a moment of his curiosity of, how do you make this grading thing work out? That conversation, I think, is good for everybody.

[00:16:38.580] – Steve
A piece that I read years ago to reinforce what you just laid out there – back to the days of the blacksmith taking on an apprentice – they identified that the taking on of the apprentice lengthened the career of the master. It was bringing you back to a conscious love level around things that you weren’t day to day handling consciously. You just gave a great example. I wouldn’t have done that reflection on grading and the thoughts I’m making – because I’m engaged in that conversation, they’ve raised that conscious level.

[00:17:17.060] – Amber
Well, it’s the automaticity. So many parts of school, it does become automatic. A lot of times we need to rethink what is automatic. Sometimes what is automatic is not good. It’s the habits that you have or the world that you lived in. One of the big things I think about is communication with families. How I used to communicate with families is very different than I do now. Interestingly, my communication, I communicated more earlier because they weren’t so inundated with information. But now it doesn’t do me any good to send two emails a week when they can go on to the parent portal. They see what I post on social media. They can see in Google Classroom. Making those adjustments so that you’re not overcommunicating. That was a big one for me. Right after COVID, people were so tired of the millions of emails and the check-ins and all that, that I think that it’s really shaped how people communicate now.

[00:18:12.540] – Steve
I’m wondering what suggestions you would have for instructional coaches and school administrators as to the roles that they should be playing in both the support of mentors, but then also in the support of the new teacher and the untenured teacher?

[00:18:32.700] – Amber
It’s so specific to, not even your district, it’s so specific to your building and what your building culture and climate is like, what role an administrator might have. Some buildings administrators are much more hands-on. They’re going to give a lot of feedback. Other people leave that to their instructional coaches. What I find, I teach a class on Danielson, how we do our observations with the Danielson rubric. One of the things that we always talk about is that administrators who might be coming to watch you teach, didn’t teach the grade level that you’re teaching. They didn’t necessarily teach the subject area. You might have a former fifth-grade teacher observing an AP lit class. One of the things I really talk about with instructional coaches and with administration is to make sure that everybody knows what we’re measuring and what we’re looking for. Instructional coaches and the administrators can go a long way towards helping shape the future of their district and certainly the future of their building about what we pay attention to. If you’ve been teaching for a while, everybody knows there’s always like, well, this initiative and then that initiative. But I think now the focus, at least for me, is really what vision of school and experience do you want for the people who are there?

[00:19:53.020] – Amber
Meaning both for your teachers and for your students in a building, what experience do you want? They shape that to a great degree. I think they can lean on their mentors to pass that knowledge down.

[00:20:05.760] – Steve
Important role for mentors to be playing in, I guess, personalizing for someone new the mission and the vision of what we want to have happen for learners.

[00:20:22.740] – Amber
Absolutely. I think that that’s an evolving – very much an evolving topic. A lot of the research and conversations I’ve been is around what learning is going to look like within the next 5 to 10 years. This idea of personalization, it’s almost like differentiation with every kid has an IEP thing in a positive way, that everybody has an individual education education plan that we’re able to use technology and resources to foster that and really make that connection that learning is life and life is learning and those overlap instead of siloed school experiences.

[00:21:01.460] – Steve
Another word that’s going through my mind as I’m listening to you, I’m real big on people seeing teaching as a profession. In my mind, I separate working in a profession from working in a trade, that if you work in a trade, you learn the right way to do something, and you’re expected to do it the right way, and you probably get evaluated on whether or not you do it the right way. When you move into profession, you’re working in a field where you learn a lot, study a lot, and then you’re conducting experiments. So a doctor is experimenting with a patient, and an attorney is experimenting with a case, and a teacher is experimenting with the learner. I can’t write a script for…

[00:21:46.680] – Amber
It really is so exponential because if you just think about one student in one class, I think I just started today, I have 120 something students.

[00:21:57.160] – Amber
If I think about the ways that I to experiment with what ways can I reach this kid, well, then I have to think about their social emotional needs and their academic needs and then their family structures. If it’s grandma, if it’s Mom and Dad, it just exponentially grows around the need that students need adults who are really committed to the profession of teaching, because then you’re working to improve something and make changes to it and not, like you said, static and say, okay, check the box.

[00:22:32.600] – Steve
If you think of that, carrying it over to other professions, nobody would expect new people coming into the field in those professions to be on their own. That we have this history of expecting that first-year, non-tenured person to go off to this room with 25 kids and carry on the way a 25-year veteran with all that experience and background behind them does.

[00:23:08.040] – Amber
Well, and there’s history, too. I mean, it’s how long you’ve been in the profession, but just what is going on in the world. I mean, some of the new teachers I’m talking to, graduated high school with COVID. I know last year I had new teachers who had done their student teaching on Zoom, which is just crazy.

[00:23:30.000] – Steve
That’s right.

[00:23:30.630] – Amber
How is that even a reality of a situation? We do throw teachers into the deep end and see what happens. But I really think that with the right mentoring structure and just the right attitude about the responsibility that we all have for the next generation of teachers, that makes a huge difference. You can see, I think you can meet a more veteran teacher and know immediately whether they are interested in that next generation or if they’re stuck in their ways. To me, it’s just very refreshing to work with new teachers to find out what’s going on with their lives, what they like, what they’re interested in. As long as you’re an active participant learning things, they’re not intimidated to learn from you. I think that’s part of what I’ve been doing successful is I’m very curious about their lives and them. I think in turn, they know I’m not trying to be the boss. I’m not trying to tell them everything. I just want to know what they can teach me and what I can teach them.

[00:24:30.640] – Steve
In my work with coaching, I label the curiosity of the coach as one of the key factors. Curious about the person you’re working with, curious about their situation, curious about their students. It walks right into it. Well, Amber, any closing thoughts you might want to toss out there, both to the new folks entering the field and the experienced folks looking to support them?

[00:25:00.000] – Amber
Yeah, I think I’ve been thinking a lot about… I actually was just working on a new book, and I’ve been thinking a lot about this need for reconnection. I think it’s no more… I mean, it’s very obvious to me in schools that the face-to-face interactions, but also the community interactions of talking in the faculty room, giving these spaces where you can bond with each other in a formalized way. A lot of the newer teachers don’t necessarily have all of the social acumen to be able to walk in and just acclimate so well to everything. One of the things that I’m thinking about in society, even, is how do we provide people with opportunities to bowl together, to have a meal together, to have a potluck, how to reconnect in a way that a lot of people who are in their 50s know how to do. But I think a lot of the younger teachers don’t have that. A lot of people after COVID lost that. That’s been one of my concerns lately is really how do we bring that community back with those connections.

[00:26:13.460] – Steve
I’ll give you a quick reinforcement from a person who was on this podcast with me who is teaching master’s degree classes and told about walking down the hall, running a little bit late for her class, and hearing the silence, thought nobody was there, only to walk in the room and find 20 people sitting on their phones. She has to purposely plan an activity to get them up and moving around the room and talking to other people before she starts the class. So that just re-requests exactly what you’ve laid out there.

[00:26:54.580] – Amber
Yeah. A lot of the research I did in the past summer has been a lot about what has that society has stopped…people aren’t in…people don’t bowl every Thursday night. People don’t even…they go to their certain church staying, or they’re dropped out of that. I think that that’s leading to a lot of the loneliness and the isolation and the anxiety that a lot of people are having. I think teachers are just uniquely situated to help students learn how to reenter society that way. But also, I think there’s an obligation that we help families do that as well. So providing things like having a family game night at school, having those types of activities where you have safe spaces, but someone else is leading it. I think that people really need that right now. That’s on my mind about as we’re looking at the next wave of new teachers, is how can we make sure that they are able to be in community with the people that they teach with and their families and their students? But also, how do we pass that on to the next generation? Because I think that that is the breakdown.

[00:28:02.660] – Amber
Right now, I think that a lot of people are feeling that it’s very isolated.

[00:28:07.040] – Steve
Well, Amber, thank you so much. I greatly enjoyed the conversation. I will put a link to the Education Week article and a link to your book in the lead-in to the podcast. Is there a way that listeners might be able to contact you directly if they want to find out more about your program there, or come to you with some questions?

[00:28:30.300] – Amber
My website, it’s called flexibleclass.com. That’s easy if you know me right away. Flexibleclass makes sense. Flexibleclass.com is one way. My email is very simple. It’s amberchandler@gmail.com. So any of those ways. But my website is probably a good way.

[00:28:50.580] – Steve
We’ll put the website in there for folks to find you as well.

[00:28:54.000] – Amber
Awesome.

[00:28:54.470] – Amber
This was great. Thank you. Awesome. Take care.

[00:29:00.060] – Steve [Outro]
Thanks for listening, folks. I’d love to hear what you’re pondering. You can find me on Twitter or LinkedIn at Steve Barkley, or send me your questions and find my videos and blogs at barkleypd.com.

 




Podcast: Teachers Responding to Students’ Human Needs

Teachers Responding to Students’ Human Needs

What do students need their teacher to know and be able to do to address social and emotional learning? Dr. Maggie Broderick, the faculty lead for Social Emotional Learning at National University explores this question and others with Steve. She explores the issue that “where a teacher lives and works”, impacts the approach to social emotional teaching. What’s possible in a school that doesn’t have SEL curriculum or resources?

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Podcast Transcript:

[00:00:00.000] – Steve [Intro]

Hello, and welcome to the Teacher Edition of Steve Barkley Ponders Out Loud. Teaching is a complex and rewarding journey, and I’m always eager to explore the many ways teachers engage students in their learning. This podcast is dedicated to supporting you, the teacher, as you inspire and guide your students. Thanks for joining me. I’m excited you’re here.

[00:00:29.640] – Steve

Teacher First Responding to Students’ Human Needs. Joining the podcast today is Dr. Maggie Broderick, an Associate Professor at National University, where she is the faculty lead for Social Emotional Learning and Curriculum and instruction. She also serves as a content expert in writing curriculum, and she is a provider of professional development activities. Maggie has over 20 years of experience in the field of education, including eight years of teaching experience in the Pittsburgh public schools, an additional K-12 and higher education teaching experience in various contexts. Welcome, Maggie. Glad to have you here.

[00:01:15.290] – Maggie

Thanks, Steve. I’m so happy to be here today.

[00:01:18.210] – Steve

I’m wondering if you can talk a little bit about the focus on SEL skills in National University’s education program.

[00:01:28.260] – Maggie

Sure. Well, SEL is super important these days. I’m so glad you’re thinking about it. I am, too. I actually recently heard, I think it’s still true, statistically, I’ll double check, that National is the largest credentular of California teachers. They’re in San Diego, but we’re largely online. We have our single-subject, secondary and multiple-subject, Elementary California credentialing, which is incredible to think about all those teachers out there. Super important responsibility. But I have a small role in a couple of pockets that I think are really important. I’m the course lead for our SEL emphasis in our Inspired Teaching and Learning program. Basically, what happens there is once people do get that California teaching credential, either for primary or secondary teaching, they can take three other courses in an emphasis. I call it an emphasis. One of those four choices is my SEL one. There’s also a STEM/steam one, an ESL one, and an EdTech-focused one. I think it’s super cool because then they get their master’s degree and they are ready with an extra component on top of their credential and almost a specialization. They also get a little bit of their chops, as we say in the music world, for research because we do a little bit of an action research component because we really need to connect that research and practice.

[00:02:51.750] – Maggie

But I’m really proud to be part of that program. Like you were saying about SEL, our numbers are really up across the board. We have PhD, EDD, master’s programs, you name it, with SEL involved. I’m so glad because it’s really important and what we need these days.

[00:03:06.600] – Steve

How would you describe what students need their teachers to know and be able to do to address SEL needs? I’m wondering, does it fit the label that I worked with previously of the needs of the whole child?

[00:03:23.610] – Maggie

I love that. I think it’s exactly right. We think about whole human education at National, and I go way back. I feel like I’ve read a lot of books over the past 50 something years, and there’s a book that’s really talked about a lot, I think from the ’90s, “All I Really Needed to Know, I Learned in Kindergarten.”

[00:03:42.070] – Steve

Oh, I remember it. I used it in the keynotes that I did.

[00:03:46.050] – Maggie

Did you? I love that. And it was just a simple thing, and I thought it was exactly speaking to what you’re asking. So for me, I twist that as a teacher educator to all I really needed to know I learned in early childhood education, understanding of early childhood education, because it’s really the same idea. I mean, that three-year-old… I’ve taught people all the way through, and I’m also a parent. That three-year-old is really a human just like that 50-year or that 20-year-old or that whatever age, or I’ve had a student who was in her 80s.

[00:04:18.910] – Steve

And the 15-year-old. [laughter]

[00:04:20.280] – Maggie

[laughter] Yes, all of the above. All human, right? We are all human. It’s still the same person. We just have developmental growth and changes. I always try to humble, especially my doctoral students, but master students as well, who maybe they’re principals of schools, or maybe they’re a high school calculus teacher, or maybe they teach adult learners some fancy business school thing. We can learn a lot from how early childhood education folks think about humans. We think about, for example, an illustration of the whole child, like you said, all the different things, and we meet them where they are. We don’t say, you have to be 15 today when you’re three. Certain things are developmental and universal. Other things are unique to individual. But a picture, like an illustration of a child, I think I learned this in my first early childhood class, with cognitive social emotional, mental, physical. That’s all part of your learning. It’s not just your cognitive, and it all goes together. And SEL is that. In my mind, it’s the same thing. And so when we think about that three-year-old and that maybe they’re feeling something awkward in their physical state right now, and that’s making it so they can’t learn as well to do something else, or they’re not able to, I don’t know, just follow the directions right now.

[00:05:43.140] – Maggie

And we say, okay, well, what are we going to do to make that better for them? Oh, they can’t reach this on the shelf. Let’s get them a step stool. Or, oh, they’re feeling some pain. Let’s adjust and figure out what we need to do for that person. It’s the same. We are human. If somebody is feeling emotional pain, they’ve been through a rough time, if somebody is too stressed, it’s the same. So these things that are in our other states, our social, emotional, or physical, whatever, it’s going to impact what’s happening with our learning in our cognitive state. So we really have to think holistically.

[00:06:12.360] – Steve

In an earlier discussion about SEL, you used the phrase, “where the teacher lives matters.” Would you unpack that for us?

[00:06:20.340] – Maggie

Sure. Well, what’s interesting about being an online educator is I actually have students everywhere. So yesterday, I met with a student in American Samoa, which was super cool. I’ve had two from American Samoa, strangely enough. It’s not that large. It looks like a beautiful place, but not that large of a place. I’ve had students from, let’s say, the deep south, and I’m in Pittsburgh, in the north. I’ve had students from California and people abroad, maybe somebody teaching English in Thailand, literally almost everywhere. Even if we just look within the United States, just very simply, it’s incredibly large and diverse in many ways. People think about diversity, equity, inclusion as a buzzword about individuals being diverse or maybe a community. But honestly, from place to place it is. I can give you a really good example. I was a curriculum director last year, and I’ve written some curricula for teacher education. There’s a course that I wrote. In the course, I tried to be general because it was online. It’s for literally everybody who wants to take that course. I had a teacher in Florida who mentioned, hey, this is going to be tricky for me.

[00:07:28.150] – Maggie

The political landscape is just tricky. I don’t know how to deal with the questions posed to me in the course. It made me really reflect. I thought, gosh, it varies from state to state, district to district, school district, every place, area to area, urban, suburban, rural. There’s also an intersectionality. I like Kimberly Crenshaw’s work on intersectionality within us, like humans. But it’s true because you may find yourself in any number of situations. You might be in an urban place, but it is in a region where the political stuff is one way versus another way and vice versa. There’s almost intersectionality there, and it’s multifaceted. You really do have to think about the words you might choose and the ways you might do things. My mom always liked to say, they call it the serenity prayer, but it’s just a saying, really. You have to accept some things and you can’t change certain things and all of the wording there. I’m sure lots of people are familiar. I think that’s probably what we need to do. It’s tricky because you might live in a place where people reactionary and thinking, oh, SEL is meaning something else than it really is, and you have to just meet people where they are and deal with where you are.

[00:08:37.850] – Maggie

It’s really quite tricky, but I like to think about that serenity prayer a little bit. Except the things you cannot change, wisdom to know the difference, and change the things that you can, and start small because you can do some things, and sometimes they might be just in a different way than somebody else in a different context.

[00:08:54.280] – Steve

Well, let’s take that a little more specific then. If I’m a teacher and I’m working in a system that that doesn’t address SEL with any curriculum or resources, what can the teacher do to best respond to needs of students?

[00:09:10.870] – Maggie

Yeah, it’s so tricky. I felt for that teacher in Florida. She really wanted to do well in my course, which asked one thing of her and in her role as a teacher, and we needed to just talk on the phone and figure out what will this mean inside of you as a teacher and what action can you take and will you take? I have a doctoral student right now addressing exactly the same thing and we came to the adage, “a rose by any other name smells as sweet.” Isn’t that from Shakespeare?

[00:09:38.950] – Steve

I don’t know where it’s from, but it’s right on.

[00:09:40.770] – Maggie

Might be Shakespeare, right? I don’t know. I’m not an English teacher. But anyway, I think that that is true when we think about SEL, because if people are reacting to the term and conflating it, perhaps, and maybe there might be some lack of awareness or jumping to… It’s almost like football I’m on this team and you’re on that team. If this is on your team, I’m from Pittsburgh, so it’s an analogy here that works. But anyway, if you say something, sometimes people jump to a conclusion. Sometimes we may have to rephrase the way we’re doing something or using a different way. But really, SEL is just a framework for understanding inter and intrapersonal interactions, reflection, self-awareness. That self-awareness component is key. My colleague Dr. Amy Lynn and I have done some work on this in the last few years, and it’s really a holistic thing. It doesn’t have to be called the SEL. I, as a young teacher, did things that would be called SEL, and I didn’t have a name for it. I just was like, This is my heart. This is what I think is right, my values, and how I want to see the world.

[00:10:49.800] – Maggie

Then I said, oh, there’s a word for this? That’s cool. But basically, you need to set it up in the classroom climate, and it can begin with the teacher. It can start very small, and you bloom because it really is contagious. If people say, “Hey, those kids are super engaged. What is he doing? What is she doing? What’s happening in that classroom?” They go, Oh, I see. Okay, maybe I’ll try that. I’ll try that thing, this or that. It’s not just a program. It’s basically just a way of thinking about relationships and the culture and the climate of a school, including families, community, all of our diverse students, and just understanding that we’re all human. If you call it a different name, it’s a rose by a different name, it still smells as sweet. I didn’t know the name for it until more recently, and it was still my heart then, too.

[00:11:34.350] – Steve

The action can have the positive impact without us having to put a different title on it.

[00:11:44.610] – Maggie

100%. It’s much more about actions speak louder than words, and it is actually a feeling more than anything, which is hard to define. Having words to define is helpful, but if you’re not allowed to use those words for whatever reason or you want to use different ones, you’re still doing it.

[00:12:01.230] – Steve

What’s important for teachers to be considering regarding their own social emotional well-being and that of their colleagues?

[00:12:11.320] – Maggie

Teaching is hard. I mean, you and I both know. We’ve stuck around, we’ve We’ve heard a lot of stories. I feel for teachers going through… I remember crying. I remember being… It’s very difficult. It was difficult 30 years ago. It’s difficult now for some of the same and some different reasons. We have huge attrition numbers. If you look at the stats, a lot of research papers and dissertations start with the problem to be addressed is that a certain percentage of teachers leave within the first five years. It’s really not an easy thing to step into. If you don’t have the support, it’s even harder. I do believe it’s gotten harder these days in a lot of ways. We have a very busy world. Students have a lot of demands and expectations on them, and they live in this constant noise, as do all of us. It’s a very noisy space. There are really scary things in the world, trauma and bad things that people go through, school shootings and Alice drills and thinking about maybe political climates and things where social justice, all kinds of things to be concerned with. But on the flip side of the coin, we also have in our busy world more tools, which is super.

[00:13:26.590] – Maggie

I love the four Cs that they came up with maybe 20 years ago, 21st century education. Four Cs, communication, collaboration, creativity, critical thinking. When we think about that with SEL and we think about the whole person, we have some tools these days to make sense of our constantly changing and evolving landscape and times. Because we’ve got to be super flexible. If we aren’t getting our emotional needs met, how are we supposed to do that? If you hurt your leg, I think of that gymnast years ago hurt her leg and still power through and like, whoa, that’s asking a lot. If we’re hurt, then we’re asked to provide mental labor and do all these things, it’s too much. We have to support the teachers and give them what they need. Then hopefully, they can support themselves by just going for a walk, reflecting, doing what they need. I go for long walks, whatever they need. It actually makes me more productive than sitting at the computer teaching all day. Then we talk a lot about teacher reflection, but it’s so much more than just, “how did that lesson go?” That was 30 years ago, “hey, how did your lesson go?

[00:14:31.690] – Maggie

What would you do differently?” Now it’s more like, “How are my students feeling? What was their emotional state? What was my emotional state?” We really need the support – SEL infused in the culture, really would help with that to help teachers feel the support they need so they’re not just running on empty, trying to provide emotional support to those who need it. We really need to support each other in that and realize that everything else stems from there.

[00:14:55.520] – Steve

As we wrap up, any closing thoughts, something you want to share with teachers that my questions didn’t bring out?

[00:15:03.460] – Maggie

Well, I guess it’s funny. You always hear people say if they get a little bit older, if they say they’re not 24 years old anymore, let’s just say, I’m not. I would say if you had a time machine to a decade or two from now and you saw the kids grown up like I do, I have the pleasure of doing these days. I live down the block from somebody. I taught their kids, and I see them now, and they’re 30 something years old. I’m like, wow. If you had that time machine, that is incredibly rewarding. But the difficult thing is it’s really a marathon. It’s really a long term thing. I like to cook. I’m a person who enjoys cooking. In the fall, I’ll set my crockpot and I’ll have a meal go all day. I’ll say, oh, that smells so good. It’s going to take time. You have to understand that you’re going to wait a long time for this. It is that a job, and that’s hard. That’s a hard thing. Somebody who’s 50 can say, hey, I see my students in They’re 30 now and look at this. That’s really hard to see that forest through the trees, I guess you’d say.

[00:16:06.670] – Maggie

Basically, you’re not alone. Understand that this is the thing that takes a long time, a slow cook, so to speak, and that teaching humans is about those humans as they grow up as people, not just about them learning their math facts or whatever, which is important, but about developing that whole person. So just understand, if you had a time machine and you could look ahead 20 years from now, that would feel pretty darn good. So just keep that in themselves.

[00:16:33.290] – Steve

I love your example because I’m at the age where I am way out there looking pretty far. And my first year of teaching, a student whom led me to need to learn a lot, follows me on LinkedIn and he’s a consultant and we recorded a podcast together last year.

[00:17:00.760] – Maggie

Wow. See? It’s full circle.

[00:17:03.890] – Steve

I can tell you early in my teaching career, I wouldn’t have looked out to the future and expected that to be one. So knowing those celebrations are there for us as teachers whenever we get to see that impact is great. Well, I appreciate you joining us. What’s the best way that listers might follow up with you if they have questions or want to get some more information?

[00:17:33.020] – Maggie

Sure. I love to connect with people, especially on anything I get very excited about the things I’m doing, is research and stuff. I’m on LinkedIn. Definitely look me up on LinkedIn. They can email mbroaderick@nu.edu. That’s National University. Or if you want to geek out a little bit and look at some publications or collaborate, I’m on Researchgate, which is a Facebook for researchers and you can just Google Scholar – look up my name on Google Scholar and see what you find there. But those are great ways to stay in touch. I’d love to pair up and figure out what folks are doing out there.

[00:18:06.970] – Steve

Alright. We’ll be sure to put your email address in the podcast lead-in. Thank you so much. I really appreciate it.

[00:18:13.190] – Maggie

Thanks. It’s a pleasure, Steve.

[00:18:16.480] – Steve [Outro]

Thanks for listening, folks. I’d love to hear what you’re pondering. You can find me on Twitter or LinkedIn at Steve Barkley, or send me your questions and find my videos and blogs at barkleypd.com.




Podcast: Teachers Building Students’ SEL Skills

Teachers Building Students' SEL Skills

The author of “Teaching with the HEART in Mind,”  Dr. Lorea Martínez, who was a special education teacher and school administrator and worked with children and adults internationally, provides reinforcement for the value of purposefully planning for embedding SEL skills in the classroom, beyond teaching the SEL curriculum. She guides educators to provide the necessary resources and structures to support teachers’ social and emotional capacity; and go beyond the SEL curriculum to include the conditions that make learning and growth possible for all students.

Read “3 Misconceptions about SEL” here.

Contact Lorea and find her resources here.

Watch Lorea’s video on Teacher Stress here.

Subscribe to the Steve Barkley Ponders Out Loud podcast on iTunes or visit BarkleyPD.com to find new episodes!

Podcast Transcript:

[00:00:00.970] – Steve [Intro]

Hello and welcome to the Teacher Edition of Steve Barkley Ponders Out Loud. The complexity of teaching is both challenging and rewarding, and my curiosity has peaked whenever I explore with teachers the multiple pathways for facilitating student engagement in the exciting world of learning. This podcast looks to serve teachers as they motivate and support their learners. Thanks for listening. I’m delighted that you’re here.

[00:00:38.010] – Steve

Teachers Building Students’ SEL Skills. The author of Teaching with the Heart and Mind is joining our podcast today. Dr. Lorea Martínez was a special education teacher and school administrator who has worked with children and adults internationally. She has conducted extensive research in the SEL field with focus on SEL implementation. She works with principles, emotional intelligence, teacher preparation, and school climate. She frequently blogs about how to incorporate SEL in teaching practices, leadership, and parenting. Welcome, Maria.

[00:01:19.770] – Lorea

Hi, Steve. Thank you for having me.

[00:01:22.140] – Steve

I’m wondering if you’d share how your teaching experiences in special education built towards your work with SEL.

[00:01:30.930] – Lorea

Yeah. So about, I would say maybe 14 years ago, I was coaching principals to look at student achievement data in order to increase academic results. And as I was sitting there with these principles, I realized that there was a set of skills that we were missing in order to really support students to do their best work and at the same time, increase academic results. And having my background in special education, I remember that my students, of course, they needed help with their academic fluency, and they needed to review their reading comprehension skills and their fractions, but the place where they got stuck the most, it was with their emotions. Sometimes they were completely overwhelmed because they had so much work to do, they didn’t know where to start, or they felt different in the classroom because they were neurodiverse and they had a different way of processing information. Sometimes they had a hard time making friendships or keeping friendships. So as I was coaching these principles, I said, wait a minute, we are missing a set of skills. And that’s how I came to the field of social-emotional learning. And I can tell you that at the time, I didn’t even know there was a field called the SEL, but I had that intuition that something else needed to be out there that defined these things that I knew I had taught my students without knowing that that was social-emotional learning.

[00:03:10.670] – Lorea

And once I found the field of SEL, it was so joyful because I truly found my life’s work. And for the last 10 years, I’ve been solely focused on supporting teachers and schools with social emotional learning. And I’ve seen the impact that this work can have on students and adults so I’m glad that I’m able to share it with everybody.

[00:03:38.330] – Steve

So in your earliest work, when you didn’t know what it was that you were doing, is that fair to say, was that focused on your survival and your student success?

[00:03:50.630] – Lorea

It was interesting because at the time, I was also working on my doctoral dissertation, and I was trying to find what were the concepts that really defined this work. And I remember submitting my master’s thesis, and I think I called it at the time, “personal skills.” That’s the best that I could come up with. And one of my advisors said, You know what? I know what you mean, but that’s not the concept. You need to do a little more research, which I did for then my doctoral dissertation. And that’s how I found later on that it was actually there was a field and they were researchers, but I did not have the name of what it was.

[00:04:36.730] – Steve

You recognized that your students needed those skills in order for you to do the other parts of teaching that you were being requested to do.

[00:04:47.030] – Lorea

Exactly. And it was as a special education teacher, you really spend, I would say, quite a bit of time helping kids to cope with what it means to be a neurodiverse student in a general education setting. So a lot of that work today, I think that it is being called by, you might say, social skills or coping skills. But when I was in school, really, we didn’t have the right language to define these skills. It was something that I think it came naturally to special ed teachers that we did because we knew that it was such an important part for students in order to be successful in the classroom.

[00:05:33.170] – Steve

I’m wondering if you could give us a starter definition for what it means for a teacher to have an SEL focus within her classroom.

[00:05:45.580] – Lorea

Yes. So I would say there are two aspects of how you might look at social-emotional learning when you are in the classroom. One is looking at the individual skill level. So really paying attention to your students and thinking about how they are practicing or applying social-emotional skills. And those skills go from being able to name your emotions, to have skills, to manage a conflict, to be able to apply empathy, to make good decisions. So paying attention to what’s the skill level that your students have in your classroom. So that’s one aspect of it. But the other aspect is really thinking about what are the conditions that you are creating for students to be successful? And that entails looking at what’s the teaching practices that you have and how are you connecting those to the skills that your students have or don’t have? And I’ll give you an example. Many times, we ask students to do a pair-share or work in groups in order to solve a problem or do a science project. And we do a really good job with prepping students for the academic needs of that exercise. But we don’t do a lot of work prepping students for the social aspect of working in a group.

[00:07:20.110] – Lorea

And students also need to be taught explicitly how to have an academic disagreement with another student or what to do when they are feeling frustrated because there’s a classmate that took the lead on the project and they are not leaving any space for anybody else to have an opinion or to bring up an idea. So when we do this work intentionally in SEL, we are also helping students to be able to almost fully participate in the classroom experience you create for them because you are also helping them not not only with the academic fluency that they need, but also with the social-emotional skills they need in order to, again, fully participate and engage in the activities and the pedagogy that you are presenting to them.

[00:08:15.740] – Steve

So the SEL skill allows them to maximize their engagement in the academic activity and then to be able to gain the academic at the same time.

[00:08:30.140] – Lorea

Exactly. And that’s why one of the false dichotomies is that we often hear is that when you are teaching SEL, you are wasting time because you need to be focused on really teaching the state standards. And that false dichotomy is  because when you are teaching those SEL skills to students, you said you are maximizing engagement, you are maximizing the student’s ability to actually learn that content in meaningful ways. Some of the things that I love teaching to educators is what are the pieces, what are the nuggets that we know from effective neuroscience? And one of them is the important role that emotions play in learning. So I think that when teachers realize, wow, if my students are not emotionally connected to the content, actually, they are not able to learn in meaningful ways, I think that it changes the paradigm where we actually want to bring emotion into the classroom, we want our students to have that emotional connection to what we are teaching because we know that then learning can be more engaging, more meaningful, and also more self-driven because it’s relevant to them at a personal level.

[00:09:54.740] – Steve

So I read a blog that you wrote about misconceptions that exist based around SEL focus in classrooms. I pulled a couple of statements out that caught my attention. I’d like to give those to you and just let you respond to them. The first one I pulled was, SEL needs to be focused on creating a rich environment for connecting, sharing, and learning, not only compliance.

[00:10:23.610] – Lorea

Yes. Sometimes SEL is seen as being able to get students to stay still and be quiet. And that’s not how learning happens. Maybe, I don’t know, 40 years ago, people thought that that’s how it happened today. Based on research, we know that that’s not the case. Learning is a social process. So we need to be talking about the things we learn. We need to be sharing and reflecting. So when we see SEL only as compliance, we are really limiting the benefits of SEL because all you are going to do is get students to follow directions. And I can tell you that, yes, that is a benefit of social emotional learning, but that’s a small piece. I think that if you are really embedding SEL in your classroom, you are planting the seeds for students to be self-motivated, to be engaged with the content, and to be active participants in their own learning process, not only being able to follow directions.

[00:11:50.600] – Steve

Next one that I pulled – teachers need time and space to develop their own social and emotional capacity.

[00:11:58.540] – Lorea

Yes. So I would say that the first few years of SEL being implemented in some of the largest urban school districts in the US, they skipped the teacher. They went straight to the student. And that was okay, right? Sometimes in education, we have that sense of urgency. But what these districts realized is that teachers needed to develop their own social-emotional skills. First, because they are models for the students, we know that we teach so much with our behavior much more than with the things that we say or when we are intentionally teaching a lesson, is when we are walking in the hallway and maybe not looking at students, not making eye contact, not saying hi to the office manager. That’s what students see, and that’s what they are learning from. So I think there needs to be a space where educators can reflect on, how am I showing up as a teacher for my students, both when I’m teaching, but also when I’m not teaching. How am I showing up? And then the other aspect is that we don’t know how to teach SEL just because. There is a pedagogy of SEL the same way that you have methods for math and methods in the science of reading.

[00:13:33.290] – Lorea

There are certain best practices around how we teach SEL that teachers need to know and practice and be comfortable with it in order to teach SEL effectively. That’s what I mean when I say teachers need the time and space to develop their own social emotional capacity.

[00:13:53.310] – Steve

When I first read that, I know that I’ve been facilitating teacher professional learning communities where I needed to stop and teach the SEL skills before we could get on with the other work that it was that we were trying to do, just the way back in a classroom, I ran into the same issue with students.

[00:14:18.580] – Lorea

Absolutely. And the thing is that there is an aspect of this work that needs to be very explicit, right? And for us as adults, unless you went to a school when you were a kid where you learned SEL, we have learned these skills by trial and error. So there’s a piece of the social emotional capacity of the adults that also opens the door for growth as educators in these skills. We do have certain universities that are embedding these skills in their teaching credentials, but many teachers don’t arrive in the classroom with an understanding of what SEL is or how they practice these skills in their own lives. So if that doesn’t happen there, it needs to happen in our schools and districts.

[00:15:13.650] – Steve

And the last one that I pulled, SEL requires teacher intentionality beyond any SEL curriculum.

[00:15:22.220] – Lorea

Yes. So sometimes SEL is seen as the the booklet or the curriculum, off the self curriculum that you can pull, you teach your lessons, you follow the script, and you are done. But the reality is that no curriculum is going to be able to see the students that you have in your classroom. The curriculum doesn’t know that Paul is dealing with their parents getting divorced, where somebody else is dealing with maybe financial uncertainty in their household. So SEL needs to be really connected to the challenges, the issues that your students in your class are dealing with. Because if it’s something abstract that you are teaching out of context, it doesn’t really help students to see SEL as life skills. These SEL skills are not a destination on their own, like something that you teach and then you put a check on the checklist. These are skills that help us deal with challenges in our lives and also to be the people that we want to be. So really needs to be contextualized, it needs to be differentiated, and it needs to deal with the real issues that your students are facing.

[00:16:47.880] – Steve

I’m wondering if you would have some recommendations for teachers who might be working in a school that doesn’t have a SEL program or SEL curriculum, in other words, the teacher is out on his or her own. Some thoughts, recommendations for those teachers?

[00:17:07.770] – Lorea

Yes. Actually, I’m glad that you are asking the question, because when I wrote “Teaching with The Heart and Mind,” this is the teacher that I picture in my mind. I was writing the book for a teacher who would be by themselves in their school trying to do this work. So I would say, grab a copy of Teaching With the Heart and Mind as a starter, but also think about what is the emotional experience you want to provide for your students. And I can tell you from all the teachers that I have observed teaching SEL, that when a teacher makes a commitment to do this work, even if they are on their own, other teachers are going to see the difference in their students. And then they want to know, what are you doing in your classroom? So even if you are by yourself, I think that that should not be a deal breaker, but really a motivation to really cultivate the classroom that you wish you had when you were a kid, to really create the space for students to thrive, to be challenged, to be motivated, and to have that meaningful connection with other kids and with that adult in the classroom.

[00:18:26.240] – Lorea

And above all, I think that when you think about teachers being champions for kids that can really make a difference in a child’s life, to be that adult that a child can go to if they have a challenge, I think that it requires some vulnerability and some planning some intentionality, but at the same time, I think the benefits are so worth it. I think they are really visible right away when you start doing this work.

[00:18:57.170] – Steve

I did some writing and a podcast in the past that looked at what I called, what is your classroom management curriculum? And the focus was getting teachers to recognize that whatever they were doing from a classroom management standpoint was actually, in effect, teaching a curriculum just the way their math curriculum or science curriculum was. As I was just listening to you, I’m thinking that those teachers who seem to stand out in what happens in their classrooms with students are really teachers who have that SEL as part of their decision-making, their design of instruction, how they respond to things that happen in their classroom. The reality is, I’m teaching SEL all day long and my interactions with my students. The curriculum, the time that I’m looking at a specific SEL skill might be my direct instruction moment to label that skill and let kids know what it is. But it’s really my modeling of it and the ability to bring kids back to be conscious of what it was that just happened or what it is that we’re doing there is where the real learning comes from.

[00:20:17.650] – Lorea

Absolutely. I think it’s a little bit changing the perspective and seeing SEL as a lens for teaching and learning. Anything that you do in your classroom can have that lens once you have developed and you have a model of what those skills are in your mind, and also that those nuggets of how the brain actually learns. If you put those two together, I think it’s so powerful because then it doesn’t feel like this is something else that is being added on my plate. This is actually how I teach in my classroom. This is how my students relate to each other. And it’s something that doesn’t happen overnight. And also it doesn’t need to feel like you need to do 100 things at the same time. You can start small with something that is important to you as an educator. And once you start that process, I think there’s no looking back. I have never met a teacher who has told me, I did SEL, and now I’m going to go back to how I taught before. I’ve never heard anybody say that to me.

[00:21:33.250] – Steve

Well, thank you. I will place the link to the article on misconceptions in the lead-in to this podcast for folks. Would you tell people the best way that they might be able to reach out to you, find the other resources that you have available, maybe even raise a question or two that they have with you?

[00:21:55.180] – Lorea

Yes, absolutely. They can find me on my website at loreamartinez.com and I have a newsletter that I publish bi-weekly. They can sign up for that. And there’s a contact page. I always respond to all the questions I receive. So please feel free to send me questions. I would love to hear from you. And on my website, you’ll find information about the book and where you can purchase it. I also have an online course to develop educators’ social-emotional skills. And exciting It’s exciting news that today also I’m launching my YouTube channel. And the first video this week is on Educator Stress. So if you are on YouTube, just go ahead and subscribe, and I’ll be publishing new videos every couple of weeks. A lot of resources for all different learners.

[00:22:49.540] – Steve

Thanks so much.

[00:22:51.320] – Lorea

Thank you, Steve. My pleasure.

[00:22:55.710] – Steve [Outro]

Thanks for listening, folks. I’d love to hear what you’re pondering. You can find me on Twitter or LinkedIn at Steve Barkley, or send me your questions and find my videos and blogs at barkleypd.com.